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Laura asks…

How can my buddy get the girl he loves back?

One of my best friends on my hockey team dated this girl for almost a year. I hooked them up. They were and I still think the perfect couple. She got really jealous over his ex-gf and he randomly talked to his ex. But he was and still is in love with this girl. He went back to Canada for the summer and they broke up because he thought he was transfering to another school. Now, he is back, loves her to death. a month ago when he came back for hockey camp they made out. Now she supposedly has some military bf. God knows what stories that guy is telling her. Needless to say, my buddy took her for granted, treated the girl not as good as he wanted to, and didn’t show her the committment he wishes he could of. Now, like 3-4 weeks later, this girl won’t show him the time of the day. My buddy is dying to get this girl back. help me get brandi shea cross and jerry holden back together at kennesaw state university. I’m thinking campus t-shirts to support the cause? please help!!

Andrew answers:

Dude first of all if they did love each other the distance wouldnt matter and now that hes back well idk maybe he should try to find out the truth about the girl and her military bf. And if its not true then he should try to get her back very slowly.

Steven asks…

I WANT MY EX FIANCE BACK… PLEASE HELP?

Alright, im going to try and make this simple.
Im 18, hes 20. Yes, we are definitely too young to have gotten engaged, and now i see that.
but anyway.
We were together about a year, and everything was so wonderful! we were so in love! and everyone knew it.(:
He is seriously the person I want to spend my life with… even though he left me.
About 2 months before our relationship ended, a lot of things changed, and Justin (my ex) became a different person. We began arguing, because all he wanted to do was run around with his friends, and he didnt want anything to do with me. I tried so hard to work things out, I took my ring off, and we broke up a couple times..
So its a long story,,
but long story short,
We had a big fight, and he left me.
He ended up telling me he had fallen out of love with me, the fighting was too much, and he was done with our relationship.

Well its been a month since then.
I love him more than ANYTHING… and for some reason I wont give up.. I still have hope that he still loves me,
and we actually hung out last night.
He told me then, that he never had fallen out of love with me, but he doesnt want to say he loves me because he doesnt want to give me hope. He said he wants me to find someone who will make me happier than he did.

AND, hes talking to a girl.. and may possibly date her..
we still have sex, and when I’m with him, theres no where else id rather be..

I once tried to talk him into getting back together… he thought about it, and then said it couldnt work..

but should i give up? or what should i do? i want him back so bad. I never knew i could hurt like this.. i just wish i never met him.. because i have no idea how im supposed to get over him.. ill never love anyone like i do him..

PLEASE give me ADVICE.

Andrew answers:

STOP allowing yourself to get used. You’ve been reduced to booty call status.

Dang! It’s true that women love the “bad boys.”

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Susan asks…

Happy Couples…?

Has anyone broken up with their girlfriend/boyfriend over something other than cheating and didn’t think you’d regret it, but later realized how much you needed him/her and ended up getting back together? How was the whole “getting back together“? Did you both love each other more or was there always a thought in the back of your mind that ya’ll may end up breaking up again? Stories please :)
Thanks!

Andrew answers:

I was in a situation like that where my ex broke up with me. We ended up getting back together several times, but there was always that thing in the back of my mind that never let me be happy because i was always wary about what could happen. I never truly gave myself to him after the first breakup.

Donald asks…

Im SO in LOVE with my EX FIANCE.. and I want him back… ADVICE?

Alright, im going to try and make this simple.
Im 18, hes 20. Yes, we are definitely too young to have gotten engaged, and now i see that.
but anyway.
We were together about a year, and everything was so wonderful! we were so in love! and everyone knew it.(:
He is seriously the person I want to spend my life with… even though he left me.
About 2 months before our relationship ended, a lot of things changed, and Justin (my ex) became a different person. We began arguing, because all he wanted to do was run around with his friends, and he didnt want anything to do with me. I tried so hard to work things out, I took my ring off, and we broke up a couple times..
So its a long story,,
but long story short,
We had a big fight, and he left me.
He ended up telling me he had fallen out of love with me, the fighting was too much, and he was done with our relationship.

Well its been a month since then.
I love him more than ANYTHING… and for some reason I wont give up.. I still have hope that he still loves me,
and we actually hung out last night.
He told me then, that he never had fallen out of love with me, but he doesnt want to say he loves me because he doesnt want to give me hope. He said he wants me to find someone who will make me happier than he did.

AND, hes talking to a girl.. and may possibly date her..
we still have sex, and when I’m with him, theres no where else id rather be..

I once tried to talk him into getting back together… he thought about it, and then said it couldnt work..

but should i give up? or what should i do? i want him back so bad. I never knew i could hurt like this.. i just wish i never met him.. because i have no idea how im supposed to get over him.. ill never love anyone like i do him..

PLEASE give me ADVICE.

Andrew answers:

You are only wasting your life with him.
If he has interest in you. If did not leave you.
He only want sex from you.
Leave him , search new one.

Mark asks…

My ex wants me to pay back the money “we” spent when we were together. What rights do I have against this?

This summer, i asked my bf to move in with me into the house i was renting. He was broke, i helped support him for almost month. He finally got a job, and soon thereafter i was layed off from mine. A couple months later, having spent all of my savings, he offered to help me pay rent, and i let him. Long story short, a few months later, we went through a pretty horrible break-up, but he refused to move out. We argued for weeks until i finally agreed to move out (to my great disgust). My landlord transfered my lease over to him and my ex promised to pay me the deposit i put down on the house. But now, my ex says that i owe him money from when we were together and he won’t give me my deposit. I really need it so i can find another place to live. p.s. i can’t afford a lawyer…

Andrew answers:

The question is not ‘what rights do you have?’ its what claims can he make on you and how can these be honored? If the landlord is paid, then the landlord is out of the issue. Without a written contract between you and xbf, there is no course for a court to take. And frankly what court would want to deal with this issue. I realize it important to you but its a fairly petty matter
Just walk away

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